First impressions are lasting ones, so come on, look at it from her POV. Did you expect her mother to serve you breakfast in bed while you spooned winston salem nc adult clubs with her daughter, right under her roof? Maybe provide fresh sheets every morning, fresh off the clothesline, and place mints on the pillows? Her daughter wants all of the perks embodied both in being a dependent, and a independent adult. She can't have it both ways. She is NOT yet independent, as you are well aware. And I doubt you're in a position to support her. So the two of you have been sneaking around like naughty, and she got busted for it. I would suggest that neither of you are ready for a LTR, even if you are crazy about each other. You've both got some growing to do. If, after you both finish college and begun you're careers, you're still available for each other, you could revisit